Saturday, September 27, 2008

Spanish Theater

Today, we went to see Luis in a play. The play was about the absurdities of life, but I only got that from the program. I didn't understand much of the play. Parts I did, parts I did, and parts I didn't need to know what they were saying. But it was interesting and fun. I have a picture with Elena and Luis out in front of the theater after, but I still have to get it from Elena. Afterwards, Luis invited me to dinner with the theater group. Elena said that was okay and then went to met Pep to eat tapas, like we had been planing on doing. The theater kids were pretty cool, especially Amin. I thought he did a really good job in the play. He spoke some English, so we talked quite a bit and we switched back and forth between Spanish and English. Once everyone was ready, we went to a Turkish restaurant, which was really good! Afterwards, 6 of us went to a bar, which here are half bars and half clubs. The music was ridiculously loud. I swear I could feel my jeans vibrating from the music! We didn't stay long because there weren't many people there. It was kinda fun, but the whole clubbing/dancing/loud music thing isn't really my scene. Luis says it isn't his either, and he only goes out to the bars about once a week, if that.

Which is something I'm really happy about, if you'll pardon the sidetrack. My host family is very low key. I don't know how to describe it exactly. My host father loves to listen to music and both my host parents love movies (so much so that when Luis and Miguel were little, they would take turns going to see movies, so they could both see them!). And Luis isn't a nightlife kind of guy. It's reminds me of family, a little, I guess. For dinner, we watch TV while we eat (we even watched "Bones" recently...that was great...but it made me miss doing the same thing at home...), and sometimes we watch movies (usually, non-school nights). I couldn't have gotten put with a better family.

Anyway, at 1AM, Luis and I left the bar and went to the bus station. We talked about videogames while we waited, and I learned that he and Miguel are big fans, and would play against each other a lot. Another plus for me! Finally, we caught the bus home and got in at 2:30AM. It was a long night, but it was fun.


The theater - outside.


The theater - inside.

Currently listening to:
Song: Times Like These
Artist: Foo Fighters
Album: One by One


Sunday, September 21, 2008

Orientation in Madrid!

What a weekend! I don't know where to begin...

I would suppose from the beginning would be best though.


Friday, I "skipped" school because I still needed to pack for the weekend. Also, the train was leaving at 12, so in order to have time to return home from school, pick up my things, walk to the bus station, take the bus downtown, and then walk to the train station from the bus stop, I would have only been in school for one period, if that. So I stayed home and packed.

At the train station, I met Maddy and Cassie. I knew that I would be taking the train with them to Madrid, but I had no idea what they looked like, so I didn't know how I was going to find them. I shouldn't have been worried though. Maddy had her Rotary jacket on so I spotted them as soon as I get into the terminal. Cassie is living in Alcoy, about 30 minutes inland from Alicante, and Maddy is living in Altea, up the coast, but still close, to Alicante. The train ride was almost 4 hours long, but it wasn't bad. Cassie, Maddy, and I got to know each other pretty well. It was such a relief to be able to speak English! They also showed "The Spiderwick Chronicles" on the train, but it was in Spanish, so it was kinda hard to follow. But most of the ride was spent sharing our experiences so far in Spain.

When we got to Madrid and left the terminal, we met Gonzalo, a Rotex (for those of you who don't know, Rotex is the group for ex-exchange students) and another girl, who I can't remember where in Spain she is at. Our swiftly increasing band then went to the high speed train terminals to collect the students from Barcelona.


The group in the Madrid train station. (Cassie is the fifth in from the left and then it's Maddy and then me)

Once the Barcelona kids had been collected, we all went outside and then attempted to find the bus. Eventually, we found it. The next hour or so was spent traveling around Madrid, gathering other students. Finally, we went to a university about 30 minutes away from Madrid. It was still part of Madrid, but it wasn't Madrid proper. At the university, the rest of the students that lived nearby showed up. It was nice to meet the other students finally. Sadly, there is only one girl from Brazil, one from Sweden, and I think 4 from Canada. The rest are good ole Americans. Not that that is a problem, but I was hoping for something similar to this last year of Rotary weekends, where there were students from all over and a lot of diversity. But this isn't a problem. Two students have really interesting assignments. One girl is living in Santa Cruz de Tenerife, in the Canary Islands, and one guy is living in Melilla, which, as he says, is Spanish North Africa. Friday night, there wasn't a lot going on. Early on, there was a barefoot soccer game, which was fun, except for the wet/mud patch and the patch of goatshead (which hurts like crazy when you run through it!!! And when you pull the burrs out of your feet, they get stuck in your fingers!!!). After that, a small group of us retired to someone's room to just hang out and talk. Josh has a friend from India and he had brought some real henna his friend had given him, so we did henna and talked the night away.

Saturday we got down to business. Tommaso and Eduardo went the rules, the 4 D's and everything else we could and couldn't do. One thing we learned that wasn't really a surprise, but I just hadn't really thought about it was how restricted our travel is. We have to have permission from our host family and the Rotary club, and if the trip means missing school, permission from the school principal and we're not allowed to travel alone. So that officially means going to visit Danielle in Madrid, or Josh in Malaga, or whoever else it pretty much out of the question. Luckily, Maddy and Cassie live close enough that I can visit easily on my own with a 3€ bus ticket. Then there were a few videos: one about Madrid and one made by Rotary concerning the 4 D's. Then we went through a checklist of things: have you met your Youth Exchange officer and do you have their contact info, do you have your proof of insurance (although for some, like me, we received our CIGNA cards at this point), etc. and so forth.


Most of us after all the official business was taken care of.

Saturday afternoon, we went on a "bus tour" of Madrid. Originally, we were going to simply drive around Madrid and have an actual bus tour: on your left you'll see this building and ahead on the right is that statue and whatnot. What we ended up doing was stopping at a couple select locations. We stopped at the Palacio Real and walked around a little of that area, and then we proceeded onto the Plaza Mayor, where we walked around more. Most of us went to the churro restaurant. Molly , Maddy, and I shared an order of churros con chocolate, which were good, but not what I was expecting.
The churros themselves were just fried dough without the sugar I thought would be there, and the chocolate was more bitter than sweet. They were still good though!


Maddy and me in front of the Palacio Real (the Royal Palace).


La Plaza Mayor.

Random artistic shot getting back on the bus in Madrid.

After the bus tour, we returned to the university for a few more presentations and a paella lunch. It was interesting, to say the least. The paella had whole shrimp, cooked, but still in the shell, mussels, and who knows what else, and it was certainly interesting to try. Saturday night, there was a crazy party, but I was hanging out with a small group of people in one of the rooms, just talking about whatever came up. Then we went outside to the party, and later, another slightly different small group of us went to a different room and talked, but it wasn't just chit-chat, it was some really interesting, personal, and deep stuff. Sunday morning, was more or less the opposite of Friday afternoon, driving around Madrid dropping people off, finally ending with the same group from Friday returning to the station. Maddy, Cassie, and I only had to wait about an hour for our train, but the group from Barcelona had to wait almost 6 hours for theirs! Once we got back to Alicante (having slept most of the ride back, to make up for the sleep we lost over the weekend, as happens at any Rotary weekend), Cassie's host mom met us at the station to take her home. Maddy and I then walked to the bus station, had a snack, and saw her off, back to Altea. All by my lonesome, I walked down to the bus stop, and caught the bus back home.

It was a long weekend, but it was definitely worth every minute of sleep that was sacrificed.
Come again soon,
Erik

P.S. I have posted more pictures on Flickr. The link is under "My Photo Albums" on the left. Once you click the link and chose the set of pictures you want to see, choose "detail" to see all the pictures with their captions.

Currently listening to:
Song: Extreme Ways
Artist: Moby
Album: The Bourne Identity Soundtrack

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

School and Rotary

I had several interesting experiences today.

First, today was the first real day (at least considering what the first day of school like is in Jacksonville) of school. Victorino is the history teacher, teaching both history of art and history of Spain. He´s really nice and pretty cool. I think his classes would be my favorites and I would love them, if I only knew what was going on. I still have problems with understanding and many times have to ask people to repeat, but little by little, I am understanding and picking up more and already at times, I find myself inside my head like usual, but it´s in Spanish! Which is a good sign. Geography was okay, once again mainly due to the lack of understanding and math, well it´s math. I understood what the problem was asking, I just couldn´t think. It´s going to be an interesting year.

The other interesting experience I had at school today was trying to figure out how to get out of valenciano. It´s a dialect of catalan spoken here in Alicante and is part of the schedule of 2nd Bachillerato for everyone. But since I´m an exchange struggling with two languages, I was told I wouldn´t have to take valenciano. Trying to figure out what exactly needed to be done to get me out of that class was interesting, but we finally figured things out. Now I just need to figure out what school supplies I need and how to get them. Paper here is more like 8.5 by 12, not the normal 8.5 by 11, and by normal, I mean what I´m used to.

Today, I also attended my first Rotary meeting (pictures once I get them). It was long and boring, much like Rotary at home. But I´m just kidding. Although it did seem to drag on, but when you don´t have any idea what people are saying that tends to happen. It was interesting. The Rotary club meets in the Sidi Hotel, which is a luxury hotel, and let me tell you...it was nice! We were in a conference hall that looked out over the ocean and there were tables with nuts, chips, and olives to snack on and drinks (alcoholic and non...I had a Coke) to enjoy while waiting for the meeting to begin. Luis Ramos, the YEO for the club, took me today because today the ¨oespa¨ (no one´s really been able to translate it exactly, but I think it´s like ¨bishop¨) was attending the meeting. I was introduced to him and many other members of the club. There were also two Frenchmen attending, who were very nice.

Anyway, we finally sat down at the long central table, and we sat down to a 4 course meal. There were three sets of forks and knives, used from the outside in with each plate. The first plate was hor d'oeuvres. I didn´t really eat any because I wasn´t sure we were supposed to start, and I had only tried one thing off the plate before a server took it. I tried something which is from Alicante, according to Luis, which was a date wrapped in bacon. It was good, but different. I didn´t particularly like it, but it wasn´t bad. The second plate was a salad, I think. There was lettuce, corn, some pineapple, shrimp, caviar (I think), and some other veggies. I didn´t like it very much. The shrimp was very strong and I didn´t even try the caviar (I don´t think I´d like fish eggs...and it´d didn´t look particularly appetizing to me). The third, main course was some kind of wrap-thing with a small piece of potato and two dates. It was some kind of bread shell with sesame seeds filled with what I later found out was lamb and I think a couple pieces of asparagus. The lamb and the shell were okay, but it was different. After that, dessert was served which was some kind of pastry with fruit and a scoop of ice cream. The cake had a weird flavor and I didn´t like it. There were also two glasses, one for water and the other for wine, and the server was going around filling everyone´s glasses and almost filled mine. Before the server got there though, Luis Ramos asked how old I was and said since I was 18 I could drink, but then I reminded him that Rotary prohibits drinking on the exchange and he said, ¨Ah, sí, si.¨ So I just had water.

The ¨obespa¨ was the main event of the meeting, but near the beginning Luis introduced me to the club and I said where I was from. Later on, there was an exchanging of banners. The obespa was presented with a banner and a plaque, I exchanged banners with the club, as did the two Frenchmen. Next time I go, the sergeant-at-arms is going to give me another, so I have two. One has to go to my sponsor club in Jacksonville, to show they had a student here, but the other one I want to sew onto the back of my jacket with one of my sponsor club´s banners. All in all, it was quite a day.

Hasta el próximo vez,
Erik

Currently listening to:
Song: May It Be
Artist: Enya
Album: Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring soundtrack

Mi casa...

es bonita.

My house is beautiful. But the video tour of it I made isn´t uploading (I can try to send it to you via e-mail, if you want. All you have to do is send me an e-mail asking for it.), so here are some pictures.



The dining room and living room.


Panorama of the kitchen...the laundry area is out the door...



Spanish light switches.













My room.














Monday, September 15, 2008

Pictures


View from the hilltop


First half of panorama



Second half of panorama



The hilltop


The hill from the roundabout at the end of the road


Me on the beach

It´s hard to believe I left 4 days ago...


The group in Madrid (Olivia, me, Danielle, Dan, Josh, and Stephen).

And the last four days have been very interesting ones.

For starters, my flights to Spain began on September 11th at 5PM from St. Louis . For those of you that don´t know, I have never been out of the country (except to Canada, which isn´t quite the same as going to one of the other countries) and I haven´t flown in many years or post-9/11. Despite that, security at the airport was very smooth, simple, and easy to handle. I had spent the preceding nights having nightmares about being detained because of some, what I saw as harmless, item. Thankfully, all went well. After landing in Detroit, I met the other exchange students I would be flying with all the way to Madrid. Olivia (going to Madrid) and Dan (going to Pamplona), I had met at Grand Rapids earlier this summer, and I met Josh from North Carolina (Malaga) and Stephen from Ohio (Madrid). We played cards and talked for a few hours waiting for our overnight flight to Amsterdam.

One interesting thing is that at each airport, we always met interesting people and swapped stories about where we were going, even though most times, we never exchanged names.

Anyway, the flight to Amsterdam left at 9:40PM and was scheduled to take 7.5 hours. The only problem was that we were flying AGAINST the time change, so the flight, according to the clock, took almost 14 hours. Landing in Amsterdam at 11:15AM, I was exhausted having spent much of the flight watching movies because I couldn´t get comfortable enough to sleep. In Amsterdam, we met Danielle from Idaho (Madrid) and we all became fast friends, as only Rotary Exchange students can. After flying from Amsterdam to Madrid, Olivia, Danielle, and Stephen left to meet their host families and go to their homes for the next year. Josh, Dan, and I wandered around trying to figure out many things, such as what exactly was the situation with our checked bags (we were a little hazy on what was supposed to happen to them in Madrid), which bus would take us to the right terminal, where customs was and would we need to go through it, etc. We finally sorted everything out and then it was time to wait. We had arrived in Madrid at 4 and we each had a flight to our host city, Josh at 8:10, Dan at 9:25, and me at 9:40. So we waited. And waited. And waited. The gates weren´t posted for flights until about 45-50 prior to takeoff, which was about 10-15 minutes prior to boarding.

After finally catching my flight, I landed in Alicante at about 10:45 local time and finally met my host family. I was greeted by Elena, Jose, and Luis, as well as Luis Ramos, the Youth Exchange officer, and his two kids. Even after that short meeting, I can see what my two biggest problems are going to be. First, I´m going to be terrible with names. Usually, I have to ask people to repeat their names, and sometimes even then I don´t know exactly what their name is. The bigger and more important problem is my understanding of the language. I´ve been complimented on how strong my Spanish is, but that is me speaking the language. When other people speak, there are issues. It´s all part of learning the language, which I´m going to do, but right now, a lot of things go right over my head the first time they are said.



My host family: Jose (Pep/Pepe), Miguel (in the US), Elena, and my host brother, Luis.

Christina, Guillermo, and Luis Ramos, Elena, me, Luis, and Pep.

The closest word I can find in English for where my host family lives is a gated community or condominium complex. I think there are 30 some odd of the similar type small house/apartment/condo in this urbanization, as they call it. There is a locked gate leading into the complex and then a gate into our unit. There is a pool in the complex, but Luis says it´s only clean during the summer, but I can use it whenever. The following two items are a panorama of the pool area and a video tour of my house. I don´t know how many pictures I could upload and I didn´t know how to best take pictures of my home that would show it the best, so I made a short video, which wouldn´t upload, so I´m going to post some pictures in a different blog. If you´d like to see the video, send me an e-mail asking for it and I can probably send it to you.


Aside from realizing how completely inept I am at Spanish, the other big surprise of arriving in Spain was my school. From the e-mails I received from Elena, I thought I was attending the university in town because there had been problems getting me enrolled at the high school. Actually, Elena had been very smart, because she had a friend who works at the university sign off on my host guarantee form, so that it could be sent to the US and I could get my visa (the host guarantee is a necessary part of the visa application because it shows where you will live and attend school). Rotary doesn´t like students to go to college through this program, so I eventually was enrolled in a high school here in town.Yesterday, I met Alvaro (a Rotary exchange student to Vermont last year) and Andres (an exchange student to Tampa, FL last year) who answered some of my questions arising from my knowledge that I no idea what to expect from a high school in Spain. Later that night, I met Elena, who lives in the same complex as me, attends the same school, and I think is in the same section of the bachillerato as me.

Here in Spain, there are 6 years of what we would probably call elementary school and 6 years of high school. I´m in the last year, where the students are preparing for the big selection test to attend universities. Bachilleratos have different sections of study, such as humanities, sciences, and technical tracks. In Alicante, there is a dialect of catalan called valenciano that is studied in schools, but I´m not taking that, Greek, or Latin at the school, because I´m going to have enough problems with Spanish as it is. Today, Elena and I walked to school and along the way met up with a few other students.
It took about 20-30 mintues to walk to school. Once there, we found our names on the lists saying who was in what class and went to the classroom. In the classroom, they took role, passed out agendas, and then read of the schedule, which was a little confusing. But after that, which took maybe 45 minutes, my first day of school ended. The confusing thing about the schedules is that a lot of periods finds the class split between sociology and Latin, or geography and French. Here is what my schedule is, I think:

----------------Monday------Tuesday-------Wednesday----Thursday------Friday
8:00-8:50----castellano*----arte+-----------castellano*---------x------------math
8:55-9:45----history~-------history~--------geography------math-----------geography
9:50-10:40---English--------math-----------philosophy-----philosophy-----philosophy
11:05-11:55--math----------sociology------sociology-------castellano*-----sociology
12:00-12:50--arte+----------geography-----English----------English---------arte+
13:15-14:05--geography---x(valenciano)-arte+-------------sociology-------history~
14:10-15:00--x (valenciano)--x-------------x------------------x--------x(valenciano)


*castellano = Spanish class, I think, which
should be like an English class in America, I think
+arte = history of art, once again, I think
~ history = history of Spain, I think, but this one I´m pretty sure about

On the 30th, we have to go the the Official Language School in Alicante to enroll. Elena actually didn´t enroll me in the school, she had put on what I can best describe as a wait-list. It should be twice a week in the afternoon and I should be in the 2nd level Spanish class.

In Spain, 24 hour time is used all over the place. Also, lunch is the big, important meal of the day, where the family gets together, sits down,
and eats. Dinner is not so formal or important. Last night, I had a small pizza, my host mother had some fruit and yogurt and we ate on the couch in front of the TV. The other thing about meals is the times are different. In Spain, lunch is somewhere between 2-4 (so there is no lunch at school, only two breaks during the day to snack, from what Andres and Alvaro told me), and dinner is around 9 or 10.

The weather here in Alicante is beautiful. Elena says September is her favorite month, and I can see why. During the day it gets up in the 80s, which is warm, but there is always some kind of breeze or wind from the sea, so it doesn´t feel quite like 80. It´s very sunny, which also makes it feel warm, but once again, the sea breeze cools things off. At night though, it´s the perfect temperature, where it is cool, but not to the point that a sweater is necessary. And the views. Wow! Words won´t do it justice, so here is a panorama I took after school today from the ¨calvo¨ or maybe ¨cabo,¨ I´m not exactly sure what the word is and I´m not exactly sure what it means, but it´s a rocky hilltop, up a steep street from our complex and the view is amazing.



I think that´s enough for one post. And that´s about all the major developments of the last four days.
Hasta,
Erik

P.S. I haven´t really been homesick much, although I do miss everyone. The hardest time is at night, trying to fall asleep. Laying there, my mind wanders and I think about everyone back home and how I won´t see them for a long time. It´s not that bad now, but the first night when it happened, I almost lost it. But I´m getting busy, so I´m not thinking about it as much. It´ll get better over time. I miss everyone though, don´t get me wrong! Hope all is well back home.

Currently listening to:
Song: When I´m Gone
Artist: 3 Doors Down
Album: Away From the Sun



Monday, September 8, 2008

"Some days are better than others"

"Some days are better than others," states Charlie Bartlett (in the movie Charlie Bartlett). And I have to agree with him.

2 days left before I go.

As that day draws closer, I find myself constantly dwelling on everything I'm leaving behind for a year and all the people I won't be able to see for a year. And the more I think about how I won't be able to see them for a year, the more I find myself wondering how much I really want to go.

The other exchange students have all been in their countries for quite some time. August 5th for Austria, August 13th (or around then) for Mexico, August 22nd for Bolivia, and about a week or so ago for Turkey. In an effort to be productive in my dwelling, I began thinking about why I have started feeling so strong about not wanting to go all of the sudden. I came to 2 conclusions.
#1. These feelings were to be expected as part of the exchange and are probably part of anyone's exchange, but the difference is that the earlier departure date forces the student to get over it by getting them involved in their host country. In my case, I've had more time sitting around waiting to think about it. Which leads me to,
#2. The extra time at home has made given me more time to spend with the people I'll be leaving behind and let me build those relationships up before I go, in turn making me feel more attached and making me want to leave them even less.

Now, I'm not trying to say I don't want to go. Because I do want to. It's just that I've had time to think about who I'm leaving behind where other exchange students may have been too busy getting ready and going to think about it before they left. But I'm just speculating about what the other students have been thinking and feeling.

2 days left before I go, and I'm excited. At this point, another quote from Charlie Bartlett comes to mind. "What you do in this life matters." I don't know exactly how that's relevant, but it's an interesting sentiment. I think the way I'm dealing with and plan on dealing with these feelings will matter and will have an impact and I think this exchange is going to matter and I think it's going to effect me. How I deal with that effect and what I do with my new perspective is going to matter, eventually.

Until next time,
-Erik

Currently listening to:
Song: Closing Time
Artist: Semisonic
Album: Feeling Strangely Fine (Ironic, no?)
"Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end."

Thursday, September 4, 2008

"Bipolar" Beginnings...Part 2

This blog is VERY overdue, but one of my talking points in this post still works. That point is that a lot can happen in a few days.

When I posted my last entry, I had a tentative departure date, I was waiting to hear back about the status of my visa, I had no travel itinerary, and I had several items I needed to buy before I went to Spain.

Now, it's all done.

One day later, I found out my visa was ready and that my departure date was fixed as the 11th of September. The next day, we went to Chicago, picked up my visa and went shopping, finding everything on my list. The day after that we received my itinerary from the travel agent. Each day brought me one step closer to leaving for Spain.

Although I have an interesting story about our visit to the consulate in Chicago. Ever since I found out I would be required to pick up my visa in person at the consulate, I had a mental image of what the place would be like. Circle drive, walled in with some military personnel manning the gate, etc. Like something out of a movie. When I found out the consulate was in downtown Chicago, I was still expecting something out of a movie. Lettering on the front of the building reading "Spanish Consulate," Spanish flag hanging out front, military personnel and metal detectors inside the doors and all that.
Instead, we read through a directory of what seemed like 500 offices within the single building to discover the Spanish consulate was on the 15th floor. Arriving on the 15th floor, we discovered that the consulate was no more than a room, with chairs around the wall, a Spanish flag in the corner and three bank-teller-like windows. "Spanish citizens," "Others," and "Visas." And all I had to do to pick up my visa was show them my ID. No paperwork to fill out, no questions to answer, just show them my driver's license, and have the one woman working behind all three windows go through the little plastic file case of passports and visas to find mine and hand it to me. All in all, the process took about 5 minutes. Nothing like what I expected, which more and more I am preparing myself for that happen on a fairly regular basis in the next year.

Even more now, with everything falling into place getting me closer to going, I find myself struggling with conflicting emotions. I'm getting more excited about finally going to Spain and living there and all of the exciting adventures I know I'm going to have. Then I become anxious and worried and scared about being away from my family and friends and everyone I care about for basically a year and how I'm going to deal in Spain and living in a language that I don't speak. I find myself wanting to go, yet at the same time I find myself wanting to stay. I want to just get to Spain. But at some lever, I want to find some way to back out (even though that point was two interviews, many dollars worth of fees and insurance payments, and friends ago). These bipolar emotions aren't helping my pre-exchange nerves any. I know the negative emotions are just me worrying and getting cold feet, like anybody else before a major event in their life, but I still can't just repress them. I guess, for me at least, these emotions are just another aspect of the exchange. I'm just dealing with them as they come and trying to get everything ready to go.

"And that's all I have to say about that." That being my reeling, bipolar mental state that leads me into my exchange. There'll be more later.
-Erik

Currently listening to:
Song: Wave Goodbye
Artist: Steadman
Album: Revive